LIFE IS SO UNFAIR…BABE…

“life is so unfair”… - pretty girl…

me and my friend coleen went to greenhills last week. honestly, para lang mag starbucks and spend time together, alam mo na, kasama na dun ang kwentuhan and chismisan. after getting our orders, nagkataon na wala ng vacant seats sa loob. so pabor sakin coz i smoke, sa labas kami, no choice. starting our topic, there was this pretty mestiza girl who seated next to our table. harapan kami nung girl. while we were chatting, this girl (i wont mention her name), started smiling at us, syempre we’re not that suplada type, so we smiled back at her. then suddenly, she started talking to us, asking questions like how old we are, where we from, specifically location and school. sabi ni girl, she’s enjoying watching us, tawa daw kami ng tawa. syempre kinausap din namin sya hanggang pinalipat niya kami sa table niya. nagkwentuhan kami for three hours. and muntik ko na maubos ang isang kahang yosi. grrr!!!

she opened up her personal problem to us. this girl is definitely pretty, single, educated, socialite, rich and belongs to a well known family. perfect i may say. when she was starting to tell her story, i knew it was about a relationship. and i can say that life is really unfair after hearing her problem. she’s totally inlove with this married guy. yes, married. but! before she enters this kind of situation, she knew that it’s wrong, immoral. oh well, what can we say? L-O-V-E yun eh. even me, if i find this married man so damn perfect, tell me, won’t you fall in love too? haaaayyy….

ang kaso, she’s too pretty to have this kind of problem. hindi ko maintindihan bakit yung guy na yun ang napagtuunan niya ng pansin. ang sa akin lang, umiwas ka sa problema diba? there are so many men out there who are still single and ready to mingle. haha!

grabe, wala akong nasabing maganda for her, and i was so sorry. i mean, hndi ako makapag bigay ng payo or i dunno how i will comfort her that time. all we can do is accompany her. kahit madami kaming napagkwentuhan that night, i can see in her eyes na talagang love niya yung guy. we are having the same problems actually. kaya madalas ko din sabihin na life is so unfair.

wala akong nakikitang masama/mali sa kanya, kahit first meeting palang namin that night. she’s cool.. really cool… kaya hindi ko rin maisip kung bakit siya pinahihirapan ng ganon.

akala ko that night, iuuwi pa niya kami para lang masamahan siya. buti nalang her friends were waiting for her.

the next morning, she txted us. she was thankful na nakilala niya kami, and likewise. syempre nagkaroon kami ng new friend and new ate diba…

nagtxt ulit siya nung gabi, and she said na malungkot pa din daw siya. oh well… a heart warming message nalang ang nareply ko to her, kahit i don’t even know what to say, baka kasi maoffend siya.

after that night, she stoped txting us…

we are still waiting for a good news from her. hopefully, madinig namin na she moved on and happy na siya ulit.

life is really unfair. coz if not, we won’t learn how to handle problems like this. and we won’t be strong coz of this problems.

God balances everything for us, and being unfair is His one way.

afterall, para din satin ang trials niya.

we’ll realize that if suddenly, we feel complete, happy and contented…

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